Paternity Case Presentation by Scott Card

Scott Card gave a presentation to a group of over 100 students from Payson High School about the legal consequences of out-of-wedlock pregnancy and child birth, better known as a paternity case. The main point he wanted to convey to the high school students was the significant legal issues and costs that arise with the birth of a child to an unwed mother.

In his presentation, he focused on the law as it relates to the unwed mother, the alleged father, and the child. This discussion included how a father is identified, the amount of child support, medical expenses, birth expenses, insurance costs and other legal obligations that both parents have to their child. Scott also pointed out the power of the government in collecting support obligations from parents for the benefit of their children.  Also in the presentation, Scott outlined the rights of the parents as it relates to their child, including parent-time visitation. To conclude the discussion, Scott identified several statistics that relate to the illegitimate child’s future and the child’s general lack of opportunities. The general feedback from the students is that they had no idea of the costs of having an illegitimate child, the legal hassle, and the disadvantage that they would cause the child to face in his or her life. 

Scott has been presenting this information to high school students for 17 years and has presented to classes and assemblies in schools in the Alpine, Provo, Nebo and Juab School Districts. This important topic needs to be addressed as the number of illegitimate children is approaching 45% of all births. Scott is happy to speak to any group of youth or adults about this important topic. 

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“I’m Getting Divorced But Hiring an Attorney Is Just Too Expensive” By Matt Howell

While I understand that sentiment, I also know that it is just wrong. The costs of handling a divorce without an attorney can far outweigh the costs of hiring an attorney to make sure your rights are protected. I have sat in court on many occasions waiting for one of my cases to be called and have observed the judge or commissioner tell the two ex-spouses that they would have saved a lot of aggravation, frustration, and money if they had only hired attorneys when they were first getting divorced. Because they did not do that the first time around, they were doomed to spend multiple rounds of litigation trying to fix problems that a lawyer could have and probably would have helped them avoid right up front. 

There are a number of things in life that are important to do right and to do them right the first time because if you don’t, the quality of your life after that will suffer significantly. One of these is getting divorced.

In a divorce there are five major questions that need to be answered:  child custody, visitation (also called parent-time), child support, division of the assets and debts of the marital estate, and alimony. If the parties cannot reach an agreement on any of these matters, the court will have to decide it. If the court decides custody and visitation, it will do so based on what is in the best interests of the child. The court will try to determine with whom it would be best for the children to live. This can be decided based on factors such as:

• Which parent has been the primary caregiver up to that time?
• Which parent will be more available to meet the children’s ongoing needs
• Do either of the parents have a history of child abuse, neglect, or abandonment? 
• Are either of the parents involved in any activities that may pose a threat to the welfare of the children 

Child support will be determined by the court determining the income that each parent has (or could have if the parent worked full-time) and running those numbers through an analysis created by the state legislature. That analysis will provide the amount that the non-custodial parent will be required to pay to the custodial parent. Absent some very unusual circumstances, the court will not change that amount.

The assets and debts of the divorcing parties are required to be divided in a manner that each party will receive one-half the value of the overall estate (whether that value is positive or negative). The court may choose to give one party more of the total assets than the other but also allocate more of the marital debt to that party. Excluded from this calculus are any “separate” assets or debts. These include any assets or debts that existed prior to the marriage, as well as any gifts or inheritances received by only one of the spouses. They also include student loans.

The last issue that the court will decide is alimony. Alimony is designed to accomplish a number of goals. The first is to ensure that neither party ends up qualifying for state welfare support. It also ensures that each party will continue to live at the same standard of living as they did during the marriage or, if necessary, that both parties take an equal step down. In the case of a long-term marriage where one of the parties was the breadwinner and the other was responsible for caring for the children, alimony will prevent the one that has spent many years developing a career and increasing their earning capacity from leaving the other, who may have been out of the work force and have no earning ability beyond entry-level work, without a fair contribution for the efforts both parties put in during the marriage.

All of the foregoing generalizations are subject to multiple exceptions and judges have a fair amount of leeway for most of them. Additionally, the parties working together can often come to an agreement that will better meet both of their needs than anything the court might decide. Mediation is a tool that is often used to reach such agreements. Even in mediation, however, it is important that you have the advice of someone familiar with the issues surrounding divorce so that you will understand whether what you are being asked to give up in the settlement negotiations may be worth what you are gaining. An experienced attorney is what you need to make sure that you avoid the pitfalls that many divorcing parties fall into.

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